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🍸 TRL Weekly: Ditch These Bad Habits
Your weekly lesson and tactical reminders inside.

Happy Sunday, future server/bartender millionaire.
In today’s lesson Brandon teaches us which bad habits we need to ditch.
Our Last Three Lessons:
How To Sell Mocktails - Read More.
How To Have a 30% Tip Average - Read More.
How To Never Get Complaints - Read More.
You can read the rest of the past weekly lessons here.
Today at a Glance:
Weekly Lesson: Ditch These Bad Habits
Tactical Reminders: Your Video Lessons
🍸 Weekly Lesson:
Ditch These Bad Habits
The first bad habit you have to ditch is responding to a guest's order by saying “Good choice” or “My favorite”.
This is common sense, but it makes everyone at the table think, “Was mine a bad choice?” or “Should I get that too?”…
You have even probably had some guests say that to you.
This is a simple switch.
Instead, you should just repeat the order back to the guest exactly how they said it and immediately.
So if they say:
“I’ll take a burger, medium rare with cheddar”
You would respond with:
“Burger, medium rare with cheddar. And what about you?” And go to the next person.
The next bad habit is using the word “Guys”.
I am fine with you using it when you are talking to all guys at a more casual restaurant, but if there is a single female at the table you shouldn’t use guys.
You might argue that it is gender neutral, but that is your opinion and even if 1 woman out of 100 gets slightly annoyed by it, then it is not worth it.
The risk outweighs the reward.
Just use words like…
Everyone
Y’all
Folks
Or just say “Hi, welcome in!”
The third and last habit you have to ditch is waiting for the guests to ask for things.
If a guest has to ask you for more water OR even for another cocktail: you failed.
You should either be the one asking OR if it's free and you know they need it, JUST BRING IT!
AND…don’t say a word. Just drop it and let them enjoy themselves.
You should also try to get good at anticipating their needs so you end up bringing it over 7 seconds before they realize they want it.
Your goal is for them to say something like:
“How’d you know I wanted that!?”
“You’re a mind reader!”.
The more times this happens, the higher your tip goes!
🚀 Tactical Reminders:
3 Habits to Ditch - Video lesson on bad habits -
Video Lesson: Click here.
Small Wow Moment - Brandon - Wow moment by asking for condiments - Video Lesson: Click here.
Elevated Verbiage - Jess - Ditch “is everything OKAY?” -
Video Lesson: Click here.
That’s all for week twenty two.
See you next week,
The Restaurant Launch Team